En. Abam @ 14 months

camner aku leh tak prasan yang aku dah buat 100th entry dalam previous post? iskk...tak sangka banyak jugak entry aku dalam masa err...tak sampai setahun dalam dunia blogging ni. heheh...

ok, back to the topic. last monday was adam's 14 months birthday. his milestones really amazed me! alhamdulillah he developed as a smart boy. not forgetting really cheeky too. hehe...ok, here goes his milestones:

• dah pandai buat gesture baca doa & amin. at one time aku tengah solat, masa nak bagi salam tetiba dia datang kat sebelah aku trus angkat tangan nak baca doa. bila dia nampak aku pakai telekung pon dia angkat tangan nak baca doa siap2. hehe...


• dah pandai main shape sorter. sebelum ni dia ketuk2 jer shapes tu atas lantai. tapi skang ni dah ada effort nak masukkan shapes tu dalam bekas dia. chaiyokk!!


• adam suka sangat nak cucuk jari dia kat suis extension wire. siap combat bawah kerusi nak capai extension tu. bila aku marah, sikit pon dia tak heran! kalau aku babab montot dia pon takder efek. tapi kalau bobo bersuara jer, dan2 tu dia gostan. kekadang tu siap nangis lagi. hahah! takut kat daddy yerr....


• suka campak/buang barang. contohnya, kalau dia ada dalam playpen, dia akan campak toys dia atas katil. kalau pintu rumah terbuka (of kos pintu grill tertutup), dia buang barang ikut celah grill ke luar lak. aritu Teamix aku pon dicampaknya keluar. tapi yang besnya lepas dia campak buang toys/barang tu, dia akan sebut 'taatuuhh' (jatuh). hahaha....


• adam dah tak minat makan nestum/cereal dalam tin atau kotak. kalau suap jugak dia akan luahkan balik sambil buat geli geleman. cett...so skang ni tiap2 hari lepas balik keje aku kena la masak moi untuk dia. biasanya moi yang abis simple jer. ada sejenis sayur pastu tabur jer serbuk bilis. done!


• like most babies, adam suka sangat tengok tv advertisements. his favourites are Eno (pelancong Jepun tak tahan pedas ;p) and Maybank (tak cukup duit nak melamar awek). tapi dia macam takut lak bila tengok iklan Ribena Lemon yang ada 2 ribenaberry joget2 lagu bollywood tu. bila kuar iklan tu mesti dia kelam kabut datang duduk rapat2 kat aku. hehehe....


• skang ni vocab adam pon dah semakin bertambah. now dia dah belajar sebut 'papu' (lampu) dan 'kaket' (sakit) selain cat (kucin) dan jatuh. then bila aku tanya 'mana kipas?' dia akan tunjuk arah kipas. cuma lom pandai sebut jer. satu lagi habit baru adam, dia suka tunjuk merata arah. tambah2 bila baru turun kete nak masuk taska dia. sana sini dia tunjuk. mebbe dia nak tanya 'aper tu ummi?' cuma tak terluah jer lagi. soon adam. soon.... ;p

ouh, it's already 12.30am. i really need to sleep. tengah tak sihat gak ni...dah 3 ari flu+demam 1-2 kepoi. when my 2nd big boss tanya 'kenapa u all slalu sakit2?' u all tu refers to me and my colleague yang kebetulan MC 2 hari baru2 ni. i sarcastically answered 'sebab stress'. hahah! could be what....takpelah, hopefully this coming CNY aku boleh cuti lama sket. boleh kan bos? ngeee....

Flying with Wings

Penumpang bayi: Encik WAN ADAM RAYYAN AMIRUL MAHAZAN

hehe...cuteness! a baby with an 'Encik' title. insya Allah adam will be flying with me and my MIL from KL to Alor Setar this coming monday. it's adam's official 1st flight! (eh, mana ada yang unofficial pon ;p).

cian adam dah setahun lebih baru dapat naik flight. tapi kira ok banyak la dari ummi dia dulu. darjah 6 baru dapat merasa naik flight...sob..sob....ni pon tak pasal2 jer adam kena ikut pegi KL gara2 aku kena pegi meeting di KPT. kalau nak tinggalkan dengan cikgu dia kena tinggal sampai 2 hari. cian la pulak...so baik aku bawak jer ke sana...

harap2 adam behave la masa dalam flight nanti. ntah camner la peel dia. hopefully he can cope with the cabin pressure. i will definitely feed him water or something to munch to avoid the pressure in his ears.

and one thing i should not miss - to bring my digicam! harusla ala2 jakun gitu. 1st time bawak anak naik kapal terbang la katakan. ahahah....

ouh, speaking of jakun, arini Secret Recipe opening day di Perlis. ramai la nanti rakyat2 jelata yang akan jakun dengan kewujudan SR kat sini (termasuklah ahkak. Perlis dah maju gitu. ehheh)

Bedtime Separation Anxiety

'our baby used to fall asleep easily and sleep through the night. but suddenly he clings to us and cries when we put him down and also wakes up crying during the night.'

i'm pretty sure most of the parents will encounter this kind of problem. after several months of sufficient night sleep, suddenly our babies show his or her new 'attitude'. not to worry. this kind of problem is known as bedtime separation anxiety. it's similar to day time separation anxiety that usually happens when we send our babies to the daycare or taska.

fortunately, there's solution to help our babies conquer their fears of being alone:

• know that it's normal. it means that he's growing up, but still has a ways to grow.



• have a peaceful prelude to bedtime. keep the hour or two leading up to bedtime as calm, reassuring and nurturing as possible. put other matters on hold until he's asleep. this will keep his stress level low before bedtime.



• rely on routines e.g. a bedtime ritual (a story, a song, a cuddle). each night it reassures your child that the same events will take place in the same sequence and can also become the start of a night-time cycle that your child will come to anticipate.



• try to bridge the gap with a transitional (or comfort) object such as favourite small stuffed animal, a small blanket.



• be reassuring but not sentimental. give your baby a hug and kiss before you put him down in his cot, then say your good night. a loving but light tone in your voice will help; if your baby senses that you're anxious about leaving, he will be too. if your baby cries, continue calmly and quietly reassuring him. gently put him back down if he's pulled up. don't pick him up, don't turn on the light, and don't stay until he's asleep.



• be consistent. this deserves repeating and repeating. without consistency, life is confusing for young children.



• try not to feel guilty. staying with your child all night won't help him overcome night-time separation anxiety but a consistent routine, lovingly enforced will.

(excerpts taken from What to Expect)

Anakku Mat Terap

aku & bobo dah tak tau nak buat camner dengan rambut en. abam. sapu baby oil pon dia still mencacak. nak kata rambut dia keras atau kasar tak pulak. jenis lembut. tapi tumbuh ke atas ;p so weekend baru ni kitorg decide nak cantas rambut dia untuk kali ke-2. tapi aku taknak dia botak macam first2 potong dulu la. macam upin ipin lak rupa dia. kui3....

en. abam sangat behave masa ane potong rambut dia. sebelum tu ane tu bagi milk flavoured sweet kat dia. made in india lagi (ceklat indu ;p). hehe...tapi aku tak bagi dia makan la. kang tercekik lak. last2 bobo yang ngap sweet tu.

aku sempat snap 2 pic jer sebab memory hp dah full. ampess....

dulu - en. abam dengan rambut(an)nya...

rambut(an) sedang dicantas oleh ane ;p

berangan pulak budak nih

yay! we are so happy with the outcome. tak pendek sangat & tak panjang dah. ala2 mat terap pon ada. hehehe...ouh, mat terap tu means askar yer...orang utara memang slalu guna term ni untuk askar. kan diorg slalu meniarap dalam hutan masa nak ambush (yer2 jer aku ni)...so jadi la mat terap...heheheh...

ok, it's time for a nap. toodles!

Nights of Tantrums

sebelum ni adam adalah seorang baby yang sangat senang nak tido. tak payah tepuk2 atau dodoi2. lepas abis minum susu & salin diaper dia akan main2 kejap, pastu trus terlelap. but recently he has changed. asik tantrum jer time nak tido. bukan nangis sikit2, tapi kaw2 punya sampai dia termuntah dalam playpen. semalam dia termuntah atas bobo lak. iskkk...

biasanya kitorg akan letak adam dalam playpen time nak tido. skang ni bila kitorg tutup jer lampu mula la dia nak tantrum. bila aku angkat letak atas katil trus dia nak tido. kitorg bukan taknak bagi dia tido skali...the problem is he's a helicopter! kalau tido mesti akan berpusing 360 degree. kalau katil king size okla kot. tapi katil kitorg queen jer. bobo saja dah amek 3/4 space. hahahaha....(ampun abe ;p). dahtu kitorg lak kena bangun awal sebab bobo kena kuar pegi keje sebelum subuh lagi (pekerja cemerlang gitu. muahaha). kalau adam tido skali biasanya memang takkan cukup tido la kitorg. tak sah kalau kaki dia tak tendang atau tangan dia tak tampar kitorg ;p pastu bila pegi keje dah macam burung hantu jer rupa sekor2 ;p

so semalam berlaku lagi episod tantrum adam. nangis2 pastu termuntah skali. then aku sapu minyak yu yee & pujuk2. dia diam la kejap. bila bobo tegur jer dia sambung nangis balik. bukan nangis sikit2 tapi sobbing. sian tengok :( last2 aku terpaksa la bawak dia keluar dari bilik pegi tido kat depan. tengah malam pon dia jaga lagi berkali2 gakla. macam mengigau. kena la pujuk2 lagi sampai dia tido balik. cobaan sungguh! bobo lak sodap jer tido dalam bilik. siap berbungkus lagi. cisss....takpelah, aku kan ibu mithali in training. heheheh....

skang ni lak adam nak aku jer pujuk2 dia. kalau bobo bersuara jer time dia nangis sure dia lagi jerit. macam ada orang cubit jer! manja ummi nih....sampai bobo cakap camner la nak masuk skolah asrama nanti kalau takleh berenggang dengan ummi. heheh....tapi aku rasa normal kot adam camni. coz he's getting into the next phase of his life - toddler phase. so makin banyak la attitude yang muncul. macam skang ni aku rasa dia baru develop bedtime separation anxiety. from what i read in What to Expect, it is normal for 1 year old babies to develop this kind of anxiety. there's some solutions for parents to cope with this problem. i'll share about it in my next entry. panjang sangat la. hehhe...

Adam's Birthday Gift

dah 2 bulan aku plan nak buat entry pasal besday prezen adam. tapi disebabkan penyakit 'M' datang menyerang, aku pon tak transfer la pics dari digicam sampailah ke hari ni. ilang jap penyakit ni pon sebab adam tengah tido, pastu aku plak taktau nak buat apa. hehe...

so, inilah prezen yang aku & bobo belikan untuk adam - Playskool Tonka Scoot n' Scoop 3 in 1 Ride On. masa kitorg beli kat Toys R Us aritu ada less 20%. kira okla kan..awal2 beli dulu dia dok tolak2 jer. tapi skang ni dah pandai naik sendiri. cuma asik dok gostan jer, ke depan nyer tak. heheheh....

the box

tadaaa.....pandangan dari depan

pandangan dari sisi (siput dalam tu sebagai hiasan jer ;p)

tuan punya ride. mentang2 dah ada truck baru, lori tanah yang lama tu dibiar tergolek dog trus. heheh...

aksi2 pemandu truck handalan ;p

oklah, dah masuk waktu maghrib. assolatu khairu minal bloggggg.....

Tahun Baru, Baju Baru

ehehehe....sempena tahun baru ni, 'baju' blog pon kena la baru, kan? (macam takder keje lak time opis hour nih ;p). apa pon baju kali ni still pink kaler & maintain tema burung ;p burung lagi...walaupun sebenarnya takder apa2 motip pon burung tu tapi ahkak punya shuker lah! huhu....

oklah, nak sambung wat keje....daaa...

Boys Over Flowers

now it looks like i just don't have the time to update my blog regularly. seminggu sekali pon payah! but how the other bloggers did it eyh? muskil aku...

oklah, sementara tengah tunggu en. abam bangun tido ni leh la aku update jap. hehe...en. abam, sila teruskan sesi peniduran anda!

back to the topic. skang ni aku tengah kemaruk tengok siri Boys Over Flowers kat 8tv kul 8.30 malam tiap2 Isnin-Jumaat. sampaikan bobo pon dah terjangkit dengan aku. hehe...cuma yang tak besnya diorg dah translate jadi cakap Mandarin lak. tak kisahlah..yang penting citer tu bes. tambah2 dengan kekiutan hero & heroin dia. iskkk...naperla artis2 Korea ni comey2 belaka...takyah nak kontrol hensem atau ayu pon memang dah comey. tak macam artis kat sini. oopss!

alamak, en. abam dah jaga lak. gtg!